Women's Benefits

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Unable to Have More Children: Is It Wise to Suggest Polygyny? Enquiry: I've reached a point where I don't feel capable of having or raising more children. Because I know my husband still desires a larger family, I have considered suggesting that he marry another woman who would be willing to have children with him. How should I approach this matter, and what you would advise? Advice: The decision to stop having…

1. You raise an issue. 2. He apologises. 3. He promises change. 4. Change lasts briefly. 5. The issue returns. 6. The conversation repeats. This has continued for years. At some point the problem is no longer communication. You have already communicated. Very clearly. Many times. The issue becomes whether the person is willing and able to consistently act upon what has been discussed. 6⃣. Could there be an…

Losing Attraction to Partner Due to Persistent Hygiene and Intimacy Issues Enquiry: Many wives suffer in silence. One woman said: "My husband is kind and generous, but I'm too embarrassed to tell him about his body odor and messy look. I've tried hinting, but he doesn't get it." Another sister said: "Over time, I have found my attraction diminishing. The hygiene and grooming issues play a significant role in…

Men Suffer Abuse Too A lot of people don’t think domestic abuse can happen to men. You might laugh, but domestic violence towards men is a real thing. A partner may start by testing the waters to see if they can get away with certain things. Spitting… If they get away with that, they might start yelling. If they get away with that, they might start hitting. If they get away with that, they might start…

False claims of domestic abuse are being exploited by some to boost their rehousing eligibility, in much the same way that false claims of homosexuality are exploited by some to boost their asylum applications.

Do pictures of bruises, marks, or injuries automatically prove abuse? Generally speaking, no. In Islam, judgments are based on evidence, not assumptions. A photo may raise concerns and justify further investigation, but suspicion is not the same as proof. A photo doesn't automatically establish: 1⃣. If the injury is real Photos can be edited, filtered, manipulated, or even deep faked. Sometimes things are not…

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Real Comments Left on the Post "VILE!!!! Lock him up and throw away the key" "Why are these people in my country" "He should be in the rat cage without clothes on" "Shouldn't take long, please update his face pictures after you deal with him" "His days are surely now numbered" "If this incident was in Birmingham it would have long been put to bed" "Little man syndrome!!!!! Hope a 6 footer bumps into…

---------------------- The Scenario A post circulates on social media claiming that a man in a London borough has been harassing and assaulting Muslim women near a local college and masjid. The post includes a physical description, alleged aliases, and photos. It claims the individual is on the sex offenders register. The post spreads rapidly through community WhatsApp groups and Telegram channels. The Question:…

When You Hear Negative Claims About Someone Enquiry: Someone I know has been accused of wrongdoing. How should I respond? Advice: Whenever allegations and rumours arise, respond with C.A.U.T.I.O.N. C — Check authenticity before believing or sharing. A — Asess the context. U — Understand that there are always two sides to a story. T — Think before reacting. I — Ignore what does not benefit your deen. O —…

S.A.B.R. in the Face of Malicious Gossip & False Allegations Enquiry: Rather than channelling their energy into something beneficial, a professional victim has set their sights on spreading malicious gossip about me. What should I do? Advice: The best advice is to observe S.A.B.R. S – Stay calm and grounded. Don't allow your emotions to dictate your response. A – Ask Allah for help. Allah is Sufficient for you,…

A “Professional Victim” A “professional victim” is a critical term used to describe someone who repeatedly portrays themselves as the victim in different situations — often to gain sympathy, avoid responsibility, influence others, or control a narrative. The phrase is used to describe someone who constantly blames others for their problems, rarely accepts personal accountability, seeks validation or emotional…

Beware of Takhbeeb (Inciting Discord) It was narrated by Abu Hurairah (may Allāh be pleased with him), that the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said: ((ليس منا من خَبَّبَ امرأةً على زوجِها، أو عبدًا على سيِّدِه)) "He is not one of us who corrupts a woman against her husband, or a servant against his master." [Abu Dawood (2175); authenticated by Sheikh Albani in Ṣaḥīḥ Sunan Abī Dāwūd] Takhbīb refers to the act of inciting…

A fully halal, fully segregated community Eid event with dedicated activities for brothers, sisters& children. 📅 Friday 29th May 📍 Old Haberdashers Rugby Club 🕐 1PM – 8PM 🎟️ See poster for ticket prices This isn’t just for families with children — there’ll also be dedicated brothers & sisters areas with activities, food, sports, chill spaces and more throughout the day. 🔥 Brothers Area Includes: ⚽ Football…

بســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــم Many women today proclaim that they seek an “Upstanding Man”—a man of emotional intelligence, financial strength, and unwavering loyalty. Yet beneath this loud pursuit lies a silent contradiction: the expectation to receive everything while offering almost nothing in return. This is not a search for partnership. It has become a demand for a multi-functional being—provider,…

✨ Eid Family Fun Day ✨ A day of eating, drinking, and remembrance. 📅 Friday, 29th May 📍 Old Haberdashers Rugby Club 🕕 1:00 PM – 8:00 PM 🎟️ See poster for entry fees Book now avoid disappointment 💫 📩 To reserve your place or for more information: https://www.zeffy.com/en-GB/ticketing/eid-fun-day-3

7:30 am -> IG1 2EP Everyone Welcome! How a Muslim spends Eid ⤵️ https://t.me/masjidsahabah/574

[Eid Funday Stalls] Alḥamdulillāh, there will be a limited opportunity to trade at the upcoming Eid Funday through a limited number of stall spaces. All vendors must receive prior approval, as spaces are limited and subject to specific conditions. ▪️ Total stalls available: 10 (5 on each side) ▪️ Conditions & Guidelines: Fee: £100 per stall Product variety: Each stall must offer unique products to avoid…

Nail Care in Islam Question: This question is from a woman asking: What is the ruling on growing long nails? If the nails are long, are wudu and prayer still valid? Is it allowed for a woman during menstruation to keep them long or wear artificial nails? If these things are not allowed, what's the advice, as this practice has become widespread among women? Sheikh Rashad Adh-Dhali'ee hafidhahullah: With regards to…