Protect Your Daughters
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah writes:
Look at many women on social media and how they put themselves on display, as though they were slave girls being presented in a slave market, or prostitutes in brothels. The higher the price, the greater the exposure.
O guardians, Fear Allah and protect your daughters! Every wound has a cure, except the wound to one's honour—for that has no…
Feminism Destroys the Family
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah writes:
Imagine a married woman with children whose life is stable. Because of a minor problem, she asks for a divorce. When asked why, she says: "I want to live my life!"
Were you dead at home that you now need to "find a life"?
They convinced her that real life means living alone, going out without asking permission, staying out as late as she…
رسائل علماء الكويت في الحجاب
Letters of the Scholars of Kuwait concerning the Hijab compiled by Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah
These pages contain a blessed call from a group of scholars who have made seeking the pleasure of Allah, the Most Blessed and Most High, their foremost goal. They call for honouring and dignifying women, and for protecting them from every kind of harm that enemies strive to bring…
Can a Woman Accept a Marriage Proposal After Khulʿ but Before Receiving the Court Document?
Question:
Shaykh, may Allah preserve and protect you,
A woman obtained a khulʿ through the court. The court ruled that the marriage was annulled, but she has not yet received the written court document.
She has begun observing her waiting period (ʿiddah).
A man has now come forward and wishes to have the Islamically…
It is reported from the hadith of Thawban, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Any woman who asks her husband for divorce without a valid reason, the fragrance of Parad
Reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah, and Ad-Dārimi. Al-Albani graded it as authentic in: Al-Mishkat, no. 3279. Sahih Al-Jamiʿ, no. 2706.
If the marriage was invalid because she was still in her waiting period and her waiting period had not ended when she married, then she should return to her first husband with a new marriage contract after completing one menstrual cycle of waiting (istibrāʾ).
I…
Questions About Divorce
Question:
Peace be upon you and the mercy and blessings of Allah.
May Allah reward you with goodness.
I am translating the question of a Salafi sister who does not speak Arabic. She fears that her divorce may not have taken place, and that the marriage she entered into afterwards may therefore not be valid:
“I was divorced with three divorces, and I am the mother of two children. After…
Divorce of a Husband Who Becomes Insane After Marriage
Question:
A man became insane after marriage. Does his divorce take effect? Or should the woman request annulment (faskh) or khulʿ?
Shaykh Muhammad Al-Aflahi, may Allah preserve him, said:
The divorce of an insane person is not valid. However, the marriage is annulled for the wife.
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When a Wife Claims Divorce but the Husband Denies It
Question:
A man’s wife claims that he divorced her, but he denies that he ever did so.
What is the Islamic ruling on this? Is the divorce considered valid, especially considering that the wife has been living in her father's house for one year?
Shaykh Abū ʿAmmār Yāsir Ad-Dubaʿī:
The husband's word is accepted. However, if the wife is certain that he did divorce…
He Doesn't Fulfil Her Rights Regarding Intimacy
Question:
Please advise us, may Allah bless you, benefit the Ummah through you, and grant you victory by supporting you.
A wife asks about her husband: he does not fulfil her rights regarding intimacy. He avoids it, and she is unable to bear her desire. She goes to him and asks him for intimacy, but he says to her:
“I am tired. Do not ask me for this. Rise above…
The Rights and Obligations of a Woman Seeking Khulʿ
Question:
What are the rights and obligations of a woman who seeks khulʿ? Especially considering the systems that exist today, which do not take into account Islamic rulings or Salafi jurisprudence regarding child custody, and the duties that a father has towards his children.
May Allah reward you with goodness. If you could kindly present the question urgently,…
Divorce During Menses
Question:
A new sister in Islam (a female migrant) has two young children and a baby. Her husband has divorced her with the third divorce. Her husband claims to be Salafi, but he used to look down on her and emotionally mistreat her, and he made her live in very difficult circumstances.
He used to tell her that she was the worst of women. He frequently threatened her with marrying another…
Khulʿ: Start of the Waiting Period and Its Duration
Question:
A sister says: "I sought a khulʿ (Islamic divorce initiated by the wife). We went to court, and the judge held two reconciliation sessions between us. From the very beginning, I had already decided to proceed with the khulʿ. The case remained in court for some time until the judge finally issued the ruling. My question is: When does my waiting period…
نرجو منكم الإفادة، وجزاكم الله خيرًا.
وقع شجار بين زوج وزوجته، فقامت الزوجة بالاتصال بالشرطة وادّعت عليه بعض الادعاءات الكاذبة، فصدر أمر بمنع الزوج من الاقتراب منها أو الذهاب إلى أي مكان توجد فيه لمدة ثلاثة أشهر. وبقي الزوجان منفصلين مدة خمسة أشهر.
بعد ذلك طلبت الزوجة الخلع، فوافق الزوج على ذلك بشرط أن ترد إليه مهره.
السؤال الأول: متى يقع الخلع؟ هل يقع بمجرد اتفاق الزوجين على الخلع، أم لا يقع إلا بعد أن ترد…
Important Questions About Khulʿ (Divorce at the Wife's Request)
Question:
We ask for your guidance, and may Allah reward you with goodness.
A husband and wife were involved in an alteration. During this altercation, the wife called the police and made some false allegations against her husband. As a result, an order was issued preventing the husband from approaching her or going to any place where she was for…
Some people—may Allah protect us and you—their whole occupation is stirring up conflict. What is their job? To create division. They enjoy turning one person against another, provoking this one agains
What they do is even uglier than what a magician does, because they work to separate people as much as they can.
So treat such a person by driving him away, rebuking him, refusing to accept what he says, and being on your guard against him, because he is someone who spreads corruption on the earth."
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Six Things You Should Do When Someone Brings You Gossip
Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah said:
"If a gossiper comes to you and repeats what someone else has said about you, or even if the person is not usually a gossip but, in this case, brings you such talk, what should you do?
The scholars say that you should do six things when dealing with such a person. Pay attention, because if you do these six things,…
Your Circle Determines Your Value
Sheikh Dagash Al-'Ajmi hafidhahullah said:
"Your value is where you place yourself. The place where you put yourself may be among people who have value, status, and standing in society—people who are respected, known for goodness and righteousness, and known for good qualities. In that case, your value becomes like the value of those you are with. But when you place yourself with…
