Seeking Orgasm Without Direct Touch
Enquiry:
What is the ruling on intentionally bringing about sexual fantasies while moving one's body in a way that seeks sexual pleasure, which may result in an orgasm-like sensation, but without directly touching the private parts (i.e. not what is classically defined as masturbation)?
Advice:
If a person intentionally moves or rubs their body, contracts muscles, or performs…
Deliberate Sexual Fantasies
Enquiry:
An unmarried sister asks: What is the ruling on intentionally entertaining or bringing about sexual thoughts or fantasies to your mind?
Advice:
The basic principle is that passing thoughts that come without choice are excused, based on the hadith:
"Indeed Allah has pardoned my Ummah for what they think to themselves, so long as they do not speak of it or act upon it."…
One of the best ways to thank those who cook for you is to return your plate empty and clean, showing you truly enjoyed the meal, and to make sincere du'a for them.
اللهم أطعم من أطعمنا وأسق من سقانا
Every harsh word. Every unfounded accusation. Every sarcastic jab. Every avoidable argument. Every act of stubbornness. Each one is not neutral—it is a withdrawal from the very account you claim to be
If you truly want reconciliation, your words must carry it, your actions must embody it, and your sacrifices must authenticate it. Otherwise it remains what it has always been: a claim on the tongue, contradicted by the very tongue that makes it.
So before concluding that the other person doesn't want reconciliation, turn the mirror on yourself first, and ask the harder question:
Have my own words, attitudes, and…
Part 2: The Reality of Reconciliation
بســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــم
In the previous article, we established a foundational principle: reconciliation cannot occur unless both parties genuinely desire it.
But this raises a sharper question:
What does it actually mean to desire reconciliation?
Is it enough to utter the words "I want reconciliation" or "I want peace"?
No. Not even close.
Reconciliation…
Part 1: The Forgotten Condition of Reconciliation
بســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــم
Conflict resolution is a discipline every believer—brother and sister alike—must learn, refine, and practice across a lifetime.
But before that discipline can even be applied, one question must be settled first, whether the conflict is marital or fraternal:
Does the other party actually want reconciliation?
If the answer is…
I especially enjoy spending time with my family and serving my parents in the hope of attaining Jannah. I also enjoy spending time in nature, hiking, trekking, and camping. Travelling and exploring di
Requirements in a spouse:
- Someone who loves Allah ﷻ and my beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ more than herself and anything else in this world.
- Someone who lives for the sake of Allah according to the Qur'an and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Salaf.
- A woman of taqwā who understands that pleasing her husband, within the obedience of Allah, is a means of earning Allah's pleasure. Likewise, I will strive to be the…
#Support_Line
On occasion, I may use this platform to assist trusted brothers in their search for marriage. While this may not be the primary route to marriage, it serves as a support line for ikhwah.
Why are you doing this?
{كذلك كنتم من قبل فمن الله عليكم}
I was once in that position myself and understand how it feels, so if I am able to help my brothers in any way, I am happy to offer my assistance.
How it…
Seeking Knowledge and Authorship Are Not Exclusive to Men!
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Some of her other works include:
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Praying in Clothing With Traces of Semen
Question:
What is the ruling on praying while wearing clothes that have traces of semen remaining after intercourse?
Shaykh Najib Ash-Shar‘abi (may Allah preserve him) replied:
The prayer is valid. According to the correct opinion, semen is considered pure.
It is only recommended to wash it if it is still wet, and to rub it off if it has dried. This is not…
Is Intercourse Obligatory on the First Night?
Question:
Is intercourse obligatory on the wedding night? May Allah bless you.
Sheikh Muhammad Al-Aflahi:
No, it is not obligatory—meaning it is not required on that specific night. This matter is left to the husband and wife (to decide between themselves).
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Is Bleeding During the First Intercourse Necessary, and Does It Prove a Woman’s Chastity?
Question:
Is bleeding necessary on the wedding night when the hymen is broken, or is it not necessary? Is it evidence of the bride’s chastity and honour? What is the ruling of the Sharīʿah regarding this? We would be greatly thankful for your answer.
Shaykh Khalid Ash-Sharihi (may Allah preserve him) replied:
Bleeding is not…
Does the Hadith About the Angels' Curse Apply to Ordinary Marital Disagreements?
Question:
If my husband goes to sleep upset with me because of ordinary matters or everyday disagreements—not related to intimacy—do the angels curse me?
Shaykh Abdurraqib Amin (may Allah preserve him) replied:
The warning does not apply to every disagreement. Rather, the text of the hadith specifically relates to intimacy, as stated…
Teaching Women About Ritual Purity and Puberty in a Mosque Lesson
Question:
Shaykh, I apologise for the length of my question, but every part is important for understanding what I mean. I am a young woman seeking Islamic knowledge, and Allah has blessed me with a position as a female lecturer masjids. I visit each masjid only once or twice a month. My first lecture was about the way of the Messengers in calling…
A Wife Refuses Her Husband Ejaculating During Pregnancy Periods
Question:
A woman agreed with her husband on a method of preventing pregnancy. The arrangement was that they would have intercourse on certain known and specified days, and while using this method, her husband wanted to have intercourse with her on days other than the agreed days. The wife refused that. Please note that she did not completely refuse…