Speak Well Or Remain Silent
طِيبُ الكَلامِ كالثِّمَار اليَانِعَةْ * فاخْتَرْ مِنَ الألفاظِ كُلَّ نافِعَةْ
Good speech is like ripe fruit,
so choose from words only those that are beneficial.
قُلِ الّتِي لِلسّامِعِينَ أَحْسَنُ * إنّ اللّسَانَ كَالسّلاحِ يَطْعَنُ
Say that which is best to the listeners, for the tongue, like a weapon, can wound.
وَرَاعِ قَدْرَ عَقْلِ مَنْ تُكِلِّمُ * وبَسِّطِ الكلامَ حتّى…
Is It Permissible for Women to Continue Studying Under a Salafi Teacher if Her Husband Leaves Salafiyyah?
Question: We are studying under a virtuous Salafi female da‘iyah who sought knowledge since the days of Dammaj, then later in Al-Hami.
She has much goodness, but she married a shaykh who was from Ahlus-Sunnah, then afterwards he deviated Allaah is the one sought for help.
In the neighbouring village, there…
وترى الكريم إذا تصرم وصله * يخفي القبيح ويظهر الإحسانا
وترى اللئيم إذا تقضى وصله * يخفي الجميل ويظهر البهتانا.
You will find the noble, when the bond is cut,
conceals what is blameworthy and displays kindness.
But the ignoble, when the bond is ended,
hides the good and displays slander.
[Iḥyāʾ ʿUlūm Ad-Dīn, 2/195]
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Safeguarding Secrets
Sheikh Faisal Al-Hashidi ḥafidhahullāh writes:
Remember, my brother in faith, that one who entrusts you with his secrets is a brother who loves you and has placed his confidence in you. Therefore, be worthy of his trust and protect his secrets just as you would protect any trust—material or otherwise.
Jābir ibn ʿAbdillāh (may Allāh be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ…
Does An Influencer Bear Sin for What Others Circulate After Their Repentance?
Question: A woman who was known as a “social-media influencer” used to appear unveiled, take photos of herself, and post them. Then Allāh blessed her with guidance, repentance, and returning to Him. She immediately deleted all her accounts and erased everything, by Allāh’s grace. But, as you know, what is on the internet remains, and many…
Marriage vs. Seeking knowledge
Question: Do you advise a student to get married or to pursue knowledge?
Sheikh Abdulḥamīd Az-Zu'kari hafidahullāh:
I advise them to marry and to seek knowledge, for as long as he is able to combine the two, why should he deprive himself of such good? But if he were to say, for example, that he needs essential knowledge and perhaps is unable to marry, then we say: begin with…
▪️للشيخ أبي محمد عبدالحميد بن يحيى الزعكري حفظه الله.
📚 صحيح البخاري رحمه الله تدريس المرة الثانية 1447 هجرية الدرس 19
👈🏻 «بين مغرب وعشاء» 👉🏻
🗓الأربعاء 21 / جمادى الأولى / 1447 هــ
3️⃣ كتاب العلم الدرس 8
من قوله: باب تعليم الرجل أمته وأهله
إلى نهاية قوله باب هل يجعل للنساء يوم على حدة في العلم
⌚️ المدة الزمنية : 22:49
Going Out to Work/School With Makeup
Question: Some women working in hospitals may use cosmetics while at work.
Sheikh Ibn Baz rahimahullah:
If men can see them, it is not permissible for them to do so but if they do this only among women, then it is permissible. Women have to cover their faces with Niqab before men.
Allāh سبحانه وتعالى, “And when you ask (his wives) for anything you want, ask them from…
Sheikh Faysal Al-Hashidi ḥafidhahullāh mentioned:
The ways children advise their parents vary, and it is important to reflect on this so that each person may know his proper place and status:
▪️First: Those who advise using a scolding, reproachful tone and compare their parents to other people’s parents.
▪️Second: Those who advise with anger and severity, mixing truth with harshness and roughness.
▪️Third: Those…
Where's so-and-so? We don't see them anymore?
Common response:
It's none of my business. I haven't been appointed to watch over them!
Advice of a scholar:
‎Sheikh Muḥammad ibn Ṣāliḥ Al-ʿUthaymīn raḥimahullāh said: “It is not from the brotherhood of īmān that when you see your brother falling short in the rights (of the religion) or you find him indulging in prohibited affairs you forsake him, making him a prey…
Is a Woman Sinful for Avoiding Pregnancy Due to Severe Illness?
Question: When I become pregnant, I become severely ill to the point that I must be hospitalised, and I develop an aversion to my home and children. I have given birth to eight children, then I used a contraceptive method, and I have been using it for seven years. The doctors did not prohibit me from becoming pregnant. Am I sinful for this?
Sheikh…
Does Khulʿ Require the Husband’s Approval?
Question: Does khulʿ (divorce initiated by the wife with compensation) take place without the husband’s consent?
Sheikh Yahya ḥafidhahullāh:
Khulʿ occurs when matters between a man and his wife are no longer sound—when she does not want him. Allāh says: “And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbiter from his people and an arbiter from hers; if they both…
