Two Common Causes of Loss of Modesty: Freemixing & Inappropriate Clothing
Shaykh Ibn ʿUthaymeen (may Allāh have mercy on him) said:
“When a woman loses her modesty, she becomes as if she were a man—or worse than a man. The loss of modesty has several causes, including: mixing freely with unrelated men, and wearing immodest clothing from a young age, which causes her to become accustomed to this behavior.”
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It Is Not Permissible for a Woman to Ask for Her Sister’s Divorce
It is reported from Abu Hurayrah (may Allāh be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ said:
“It is not permissible for a woman to ask for her sister’s divorce in order to claim her share; for she only has what has been decreed for her.” (Agreed upon)
Commentary:
The Shari'ah has regulated dealings among people in buying and selling, clearly…
Is a Woman Required to Seek Her Husband’s Permission Before Making Up Missed Fasts?
Question: What is the ruling on a woman who fasts without her husband’s knowledge for two days, knowing that this fasting is a makeup (qaḍā') for missed days of Ramaḍān, and she felt shy to inform her husband? If it were not permissible, would she be required to offer expiation (kaffārah)?
Answer: A woman must make up the days of…
Divorce—even when a woman herself seeks it, fleeing from pain or seeking relief from harm—remains a deep wound in the depths of her soul.
It may bring an end to one suffering, yet it leaves behind other pains;
it may close the door to hardship, yet it opens doors to sorrow, confusion, and heartbreak.
Written by: Faisal Al-Hashdi — may Allāh preserve him and elevate his rank.
Awaken, O daughter of noble lineage. Whoever seeks what is lawful should turn to real life, not to the doors of websites. Fear Allāh, and guard yourself, your reputation, and your honour, for faith and good conduct are a woman’s true crown.
Written by: Faisal Al-Hashdi — may Allāh preserve him and elevate his rank.
Sisters, take this as a reminder to make up any fasts missed from previous years. Ramaḍān is very close and there is no easier time to make up those missed fasts than during the winter.
Ruling on Breaking an Obligatory Make-Up Fast
Sheikh ’Uthaymeen raḥimahullāh said:
"As for making up a missed fast (qaḍāʾ), it is not permissible to break it, because the principle established by the textual evidence is that whoever begins an obligatory act is not allowed to discontinue it except for a legitimate legal excuse. For this reason, if a person pronounces the opening takbīr to begin an obligatory…
An apology from a good person is like an immediate payment, while an apology from a bad person is like paying a debt late
A good person, if they upset a friend, doesn't wait for the hurt to grow. They don't let the heart break or the wound get infected. Instead, they hurry to say sorry and fix the friendship before the pain gets worse.
Abu Bakr As-Siddiq (may Allāh be pleased with him) once said:
((كَانَ بَيْنِي…
Clarifying the Meaning of ‘Five Sucklings’ in the Context of Prohibited Breastfeeding
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, may Allāh have mercy on him, said:
‘What constitutes a prohibited feeding (from a woman to a child) in terms of establishing non-marriage (mahram status)?
▪️-> Is it a single suckling, such that if a child sucks five times—even in one breath—the prohibition is established?
▪️-> Or is it that the feeding…
Forgiveness, tolerance, and overlooking faults between husband and wife
A human being is not an infallible angel, free from error; rather, he sometimes acts rightly and sometimes errs—both in his duty toward Allāh and in his dealings with His servants. There is no remedy for this except repentance to Allāh, and forgiveness and pardon among people.
Imam Ash-Shāfiʿī (may Allāh have mercy on him) said:
وَعاشِر…
A Day in The Life of The Prophet ﷺ – A wife's perspective
Ā'ishah (may Allāh be pleased with her) said:
“The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ did not favour some of us over others in the division with regard to the length of his stay with us. Rarely would a day pass without him visiting all of us, drawing close to each woman without physical intimacy, until he reached the one whose day it was, and then he would spend the…
We Are Meant For Each Other
Sheikh Ahmad An-Najmī rahimahullah said:
«فالرجل لا يتم حاله ولا تطيب له الحياة إلا بالزوجة الصالحة. والمرأة لا تطمئن ولا تطيب لها الحياة إلا بالزوج الصالح»
‎The man’s affair will not be complete nor will he have a good life except by way of a righteous wife. And the woman will not have ease nor will she have a good life except by way of a righteous husband.
‏[تأسيس الأحكام…
ودع عنك من كان مستنفعا * إذا فاته نفعُه حسّرك
Stay away from someone who only seeks benefit; if his benefit is lost, he makes you regret it.
يريدك للنفع مهما يكن * وليس عليه اذا خسّرك
He wants you only for gain, whatever it may be, and he does not care if it causes you loss.
فينهل منك كما يشتهي * وما كف يوما وما وفّرك
He takes from you as much as he desires, never stopping, never sparing you.
يراك كسيرا وقد…
وصاحب نصوحا تُسرّ به * ففيه الوضوح إذا بصّرك
Keep the company of a sincere person who brings you joy; in him there is clarity when he gives you guidance.
وان حَلّ خَطبٌ تضيق به * أعانك من بعد ما صبّرك
And if a serious hardship occurs and overwhelms you, he will help you after he has made you patient.
May Allāh surround us with good friends
Some time ago, someone (وفقـه الله) discussed the topic of polygyny and concluded that it is merely mubāḥ.
In this concise, long-overdue research paper, titled:
التعدُّد بين الإباحةِ والتعبُّد
Polygyny: Between Permissibility and Worship
I aim to demonstrate why polygyny is more than just mubāḥ.
Link ⤵️
https://t.me/Menzbenefits/131
“Abdullāh Learns Body Parts”
English Reading Practice
Level 1, Book 8
📹 Video ⤵️
https://youtu.be/ZjBDbSz0xlQ
📖 Pdf ⤵️
https://t.me/masjidsahabah/1480
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https://t.me/salafihomeschool/1030
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