Never confront parental leniency with harshness or disobedience. Allāh says: “And if they strive to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowled
11 September 2025 • 1.9K views
If obedience in matters of disbelief requires kindness, how much more in matters of personal judgment or leniency. Fulfill the rights of parents gently while explaining the ruling.
Fifth: If You Cannot Succeed
If you try and do not succeed, do not turn the home into a battlefield. Allāh says: “Indeed, you do not guide whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills.” [Al-Qaṣaṣ 28:56]
Pray for her, repeat your advice periodically, without argument or aggression. Let your heart remain gentle and your speech sincere. By Allah’s permission, this will bring about reform.
This is a concise response. Praise be to Allāh.
✍🏻 Abu Al-Mundhir ’Ammār Al-Ḥawbani
Thursday, 19 Rabi’ Al-Awwāl 1447 AH
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