My 13 year old daughter's behaviour is getting out of control. She is not in school at the moment. I am a single parent. I cannot find a brother who would mentor my daughter as I think she needs a male figure for discipline. There is no Muslim support groups for me. I only rely on Allah. My daughter has been failed and Allah will question me what did I do. I will keep trying. Please advice me may Allah bless you all…
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I have been married only a few months but whenever I try to talk to my husband he barely pays me any attention and is busy with friends or his phone, I have tried to talk to him about this but he says I’m just being emotional because I am a woman or to stop being dramatic. He is not a bad man, however I feel as though he does not try to understand that he puts me down or makes me feel below him and…
“Those who say, “Our Lord, we believe, so forgive us our sins and protect us from suffering in the Fire.” [Surah Āli-ʿImrān: 16]
▪️Aqeedah benefit derived from this Aayah:
This Aayah contains evidence for two of the three forms of legislated Tawassul:
1- Seeking Tawassul by Allah's Names/Attributes => ربنا {Our Lord}
2. Seeking Tawassul through one's own righteous deeds = “we have believed, so forgive us” (i.e.…
For Sisters living in West London and surrounding areas, there are a few gatherings/lessons taking place at masjid Muqbil:
▪️5pm Saturday (bi-weekly) = RELEVANT LECTURE FOR SISTERS
* Tomorrow's lecture will be about The 10 promised Jannah from the women
▪️4pm Sunday = IMPORTANT LESSONS FOR THE GENERAL MUSLIM (Ad-Duroos Al-Muhimmah)
Taught by Fahad Al-Keenyi
* They are only four lessons in and all previous lessons have been recorded:
https://www.dropbox.com/sh/1e7ui0v2s4fp6on/AACTNpcdDKG2O7PDL383Egtma?dl=0
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The following…
CONCERN: I have a 7 year old son who goes to a public school, but I’m looking to take him out due to the behaviour that he picks up from his non Muslim friends. He picks up swear words and inappropria
ADVICES:
▪️I recommend you put your trust in Allah and help your wife as much as you can to initate homeschooling for your children and make du'a.
▪️Take action swiftly before things get worse. Your son could pick up even more bad habits, like swearing on other than Allāh and so many other evil ideologies in school.
▪️Yes, you and your wife will have less free time, but that's a small sacrifice in comparison to…
Advice to self before anyone else: Enter into Islam wholeheartedly
* Be a practicing Muslim wherever you are, whether in the masjid, at an Islamic class, or at work/school.
* Don't be two faced; Muhحammad when around your practicing brothers and Moe elsewhere. Maaariyah around your practicing sisters and Mary everywhere else. You must act like Muhحammad / Maaariyah whoever you're with!
* Don't be Salafi in your Aqeedah and a con-man when it comes to earning your rizq. Cheating…
Ruling on using the heart symbol (❤) to express love
The above Fatwa states:
...أن فيه تشبهاً بأهل الفسق الذين يتخذون مثل هذه الرموز دلالة على حبهم وعشقهم المحرم لغيرهم، ويتفانون فيه من غير التفات لحكم الشريعة المطهرة فيه. اهـ
“...This action involves imitation of Fāsiqs (people flagrantly violating Islamic law) who use such symbols to display their prohibited love and adoration of others, totally ignoring the ruling of the purified Shariah (Islamic law) on this…
Is Khalwah [being alone with a non-mahram] removed by making a phone call; for example, whenever a female passenger enters alone upon a taxi driver he engages in a phone call to either his wife, friend, or someone else, so is Khalwah removed by way of this (phone call)?
Answer of Sheikh Saleem Al-Hilali and Sheikh Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari (may Allah preserve them both):
لا = No
Also, Sheikh Yusuf Al-Jazairi…
Ibn 'Abbās raḍhiyallāhu 'anhu narrated that the Prophet (ﷺ) said:
((لا يخلون أحدكم بامرأة إلا مع ذي محرم))
“It is not permissible for a man to be alone with a non-maḥram woman.” [Reported by al-Bukhari no. 5232 and Muslim no. 2172].
Sheikh 'Uthaymeen raḥimahullāh said: “that includes being alone with the driver; i.e. a person has a driver and he allows his wife or daughter to ride with him. It is not permissible…
A Salutary Gift to the Young Muslimah | Preparing her on her journey to puberty and womanhood
Compiled by Umm Hayaa' Haleemah bint James
https://t.me/ummuhayaa/259
Note: Girls mature quicker and require more preparation than boys. As such, it's vital for parents to equip their daughters well in advance.
The 8 conditions of لا إله إلا الله are as follows:
عِلْمٌ يَقِينٌ وَإِخْلَاصٌ وَصِدْقُكَ مَعْ ...
مَحَبَّةٍ وَانْقِيَادٍ والقبولِ لَهَا
وَزِيدَ ثَامِنُهَا الْكُفْرَانُ مِنْكَ بِمَا ...
سٍوَى الْإِلهِ مِنَ الْأَشْيَاءِ قَدْ أُلِهَا
1. KNOWLEDGE (to know what this statement means)
2. CONVICTION (to be absolutely certain of what it entails)
3. SINCERITY (to say it solely for Allah's sake)
4. TRUTHFULNESS (we must say it honestly and actually mean it, as…
For any interested parties, this is a marriage service run by one of the brothers from masjid Muqbil:
https://t.me/abumaryamsmatrimonial/232
Advice:
▪️Be patient
▪️What's meant for you will never miss you
▪️ ((أجملوا في الطلب))
Seek Allah's provision through beautiful, Halal means
“Our noble scholar Ibn 'Uthaymeen said about our noble scholar Al-Imam Al-Albaani may Allaah have mercy on them both, that: 'He (Albaani) revived the Sunnah while he was alive and after he passed away.'
I (Shaykh Saleem Al-Hilaalee) say: And from the things which indicate this is that when the car flipped with him (shaykh Albani) while he was travelling between Jeddah and Madinah during his days of teaching in the…
Qurʿān burning is becoming a regular occurrence in parts of Europe.
اللهم أحرق من أحرق كتابك واجعله عبرة وعظة للمعتبرين.
But protesting and rioting is not the solution! Because the book of Allāh is preserved in the chests of the Muslims just as it is preserved in the Maṣaaḥif. Thus burning a copy of the Qurʿān will not have any effect on its preservation.
Allah ﷻ said:
{ إِنَّا نَحۡنُ نَزَّلۡنَا ٱلذِّكۡرَ وَإِنَّا لَهُۥ لَحَـٰفِظُونَ }
“Ineed, it is We Who have revealed the…
A 38 year old Muslim woman was arrested in Waltham Forest (East London) under section 4a of the Public Order Act.
Her crime: The woman shouted at some gays, saying: “God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Shame on you, shame on all of you. Shame on you, you despicable people. Shame on you, you shameless people.”
Meanwhile in Sweden, Salwan Momika, an Iraqi citizen living in Stockholm, burns a copy of the Qurʿān near a mosque after having stamped on it. But rather than arresting him, Swedish police granted Momika a…
If someone is in the habit of fasting Ayyamul Beeḍh/ the white days (13th, 14th & 15th of every lunar month), should they fast tomorrow (14th) and the day after (15th)?
Sheikh Abu Musa Abdullah Hableel hafidhahullah said:
لا بأس بذلك، إن أحب يصوم يوما آخر فهو أحسن؛ من باب صيام ثلاثة أيام من كل شهر.
That is okay. And if he wants to fast an extra day then that is better; from the angle of fasting three days of…
Question: Today marks the 13th of Dhul Ḥijjah; the first of the three white days, so are we allowed to fast?
Answered by Sheikh 'Abdulḥamīd Az-Zu'karī on the 13th of Dhul Ḥijjah 1441 H.
لا يجوز صيام يوم الثالث عشر من ذي الحجة
It is not allowed to fast the 13th of Dhul Ḥijjah (today)
إلا لمن لم يجد الهدي
except for the (mutamatti‘) who is unable to find (or afford) a sacrificial animal
فهي أيام عيد
That is because these (11th, 12th, 13th) are days of ‘Eid (celebration).
فعن عروة، عن عائشة وعن سالم عن ابن عمر رضي الله…