The point being, sometimes a kind word is all it takes, you don't even need to lift a finger.
Example 3. Order her takeaway every now and then. Maybe once a week, like Fridays.
Example 4. Go to her occasionally when she's busy with her chores, give her a kiss on the neck, massage her shoulders and show how much you appreciate her.
Note: although it's good to be affectionate to one another infront of the kids, you must be careful not to go overboard by kissing on the lips, fondling, using inappropriate…
If you are going through a difficult time in your marriage, reflect over these 𝗯𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲𝘀:
1. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
((أَكْمَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا، وَخِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ خُلُقًا)).
“The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women.” [Sunan At-Tirmidhī (1162) authenticated by Sheikh…
A wise man said:
«لا تُصَادِقْ عاقًّا فإنه لن يَبَرَّك وقد عَقَّ مَن هو أوْجَبُ منك حقًّا»
‎“Do not befriend one who disrespects his parents for he will never be good to you. He has disrespected those who have more rights over him than you (so how can you expect him to treat you any better).”
‎[Al-Birr waṣ-Silah by Imām Ibn Al-Jawzī raḥimahullāh]
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
الحمد لله واشهد أن لا إله إلا الله واشهد أن محمدا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم وبعد
فقد وصلتني رسالة طيبة من أخينا الفاضل أبي عبد الله عبد الرزاق الجيبوتي بشر فيها بما حصل من صلح بين أخينا الشيخ الفاضل صلاح الدين وأخينا الفاضل المبارك أبي شكير محمد بن إبراهيم ففرحت بذلك
وشكر الله للشيخ أبي عبد الله حمزة بن معلم الإسحاقي جهوده في ذلك
وقد زرت أخانا أبا شكير في المسجد الذي…
The two Sheikhs who travelled to Somalia have arrived back safely in Yemen. May Allāh accept their efforts and reward them in abundance.
Usually when a scholar from Yemen goes out for da'wah he gives a lecture upon his return describing his experiences, lessons learnt, and gives an overview of how the trip went.
Here is Sheikh Fat-ḥ's lecture ⤵️
https://t.me/sh_yahia_duroos/13203
One of the main things to take away from this lecture is that Salafiyyah is simple and is easily accepted by people. However the infighting between some of the du'aat is…
Shaykh Muqbil's Advice to the New Muslim [Forwarded]
Question: If Allah guides someone to Islaam, what should he say and what should be said to him?
Answer: He should say:
أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله.
“I Bear witness that there is no deity worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is his slave and messenger.”
Then he is to be advised with accompanying the righteous people, for indeed the messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “The example of the…
As for sound Rudood issued by the scholars which are based on clarifying the truth - not upon desire, then these are necessary; because it is not permissible to remain silent concerning the people of
[Q&A session from Sharḥ Mandhumat Al-Ādāb, Tape 33]
𝗦𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗸𝗵 𝗠𝘂𝗾𝗯𝗶𝗹'𝘀 𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲:
قال الإمام مقبل الوادعي :رحمه الله - «الذي أنصح به إخواننا بالجد والاجتهاد في تحصيل العلم النافع وأن لا يشغلوا أنفسهم بما لا يعنيهم، فهذا الاختلاف وهذه الفرقة ناشئة عن فراغ، والشيخ فلاني المصيب والشيخ الفلاني المخطئ! والشيخ فلان لا يؤخذ عنه العلم، والشيخ فلان كذا وكذا! فأنا أقول: يجب أن تحدثك نفسك أن تكون مثل الشيخ…
BENEFIT 22: What is Rudood?
Radd (ردٌّ) singular: reply, response, refutation...
Rudood (رُدُودٌ) plural: ...Refutations
Rudood (refutations) is a branch from the branches of knowledge, and more specifically a branch within the science of hadeeth (Musṭalaḥ Al-Ḥadīth)
Its main objectives are to:
▪️Promote the pure, authentic Sunnah
▪️Counter the spread of falsehood & innovation
▪️Distinguish truth from…
BENEFIT 21: Linguistic definition Vs. legislative definition
Sheikh ’Uthaymeen raḥimahullāh mentioned:
«...وله تعريف في اللغة أعم من تعريفه في الاصطلاح، وهكذا جميع الكلمات والحقائق التي لها حقائق لغوية وحقائق شرعية، تجد أن الحقائق اللغوية أوسع من الحقائق الشرعية، إلا في بعض كلمات كالإيمان مثلاً، فهو في اللغة محله القلب، لأنه إقرار القلب بالشيء، لكن في الشرع أعم، إذ يشمل قول الإنسان، وعمل الجوارح بالإضافة إلى إقرار…
BENEFIT 20: Health benefit related to sneezing
To sneeze:
عَطَسَ - يَعْطِسُ/ يَعْطُسُ - عَطْسٌ/عُطَاسٌ
Sneezing is the body's way of removing irritants, which is why you should let it out rather than hold it back. Suppressing it can lead to illness.
When sneezing do not turn your neck to the side as this can also lead to illness, but rather you should face forward and sneeze while covering your mouth &…
Evidences to support the second view:
1⃣. The ḥadīth of Ibn ’Umar raḍhiyallāhu ’anhumā reported by Bukhāri and Muslim:
((لاَ يَحِلُّ لاِمْرَأَةٍ تُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الآخِرِ تُسَافِرُ مَسِيرَةَ ثَلاَثِ لَيَالٍ إِلاَّ وَمَعَهَا ذُو مَحْرَمٍ)).
“It is not lawful for a woman who believes in Allāh and the Hereafter to travel for more than three nights journey except when there is a Maḥram with her.”…
THE SECOND CASE:
A woman travelling SPECIFICALLY to perform the obligatory Ḥajj
This is the issue over which the scholars have differed into two views:
The first view:
She is allowed to travel without a Maḥram provided there is safety.
Safety may be by travelling with:
A. a group of women
B. a group of trustworthy men
C. a group comprising both men and women
This view was relayed from:
’Aṭā' ibn Abi Rabāḥ,…
Here are some referenced quotes from those who transmitted the aforementioned concensus:
1⃣. Al-Baghawi raḥimahullāh said:
“They did not differ concerning impermissibility of women travelling without a husband or a Maḥram for purposes other than the obligatory Ḥajj, and apart from (exceptional circumstances such as) a kafir woman embracing Islam in a non-Muslim land (I.e. She is allowed to migrate to a Muslim land…
This is a Summarised English translation of the above article
[part 1]
Nowadays Muslims have been trialled with people who issue Religious verdicts on TV, newspapers, magazines, etc., without being qualified to do so. Thus, you find their verdicts opposing the Qur'an, authentic Sunnah and the consensus of those who preceded.
One such issue where they have opposed the aforementioned sources is their permittance…
Reminds me of Sheikh Abdulmuhsin Al-Abbad hafidahullah when he said: I used to collect all my notebooks at the end of each school year, and the most precious of them were those from my early years.
May Allāh allow this boy ⤵️ to be from the great scholars of this Ummah.
I asked Sheikh Jum'an Lahmar (one of Sheikh Muqbil's students based in Seiyun, Yemen) this question today, and he said:
“Yes, so long as she fulfils the conditions stated in the hadeeth.”
Note:
Sitting close to the khateeb in the case of women would be that she sits in the women's section as close to the front row as possible.
What's best for women?
https://t.me/madrasatuna/1888
Jumu'ah is most people's favourite day of the week; the evildoer yearns for it to fulfil his desires while the believer yearns to please The Almighty
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The following is an abridged translation of a benefit transmitted by Sheikh Faysal Al-Hashidi hafidhahullah
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Do you want the reward of fasting & praying hundreds of years in just a few minutes?!
If so, read the greatest authentic hadeeth on the…
To fast or not to fast?
✅ If you are someone who was already in the habit of fasting Mondays and Thursdays prior to Rajab, then don't let anyone stop you. Continue fasting, and may Allah reward you. Certainly, the most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are continual - even if they are small.
🚫 However, if you had no habit of fasting prior to this month, then don't let anyone fool you into prioritising…
1⃣. Offering sacrifice specifically in this month
Abu Hurairah raḍhiyallāhu anhu narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said: “No Far’. No ‘Ateerah.” [Bukhari & Muslim]
Both were types of sacrifices offered by the Mushriks to their false deities; Far’ being the first child of the cattle and ’Ateerah being the sacrifice offered specifically in the month of Rajab.
So those who slaughter in the month of Rajab specifically are…
